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Frequently
Asked Questions
When
do I call my doula during labor?
It is
best to call your doula as soon as you begin labor to alert her that
you may be needing her soon. Continue to update her throughout early
labor and call with any questions you may have. A doula usually
joins you when YOU are ready to have her support.
Do I
get to interview doulas?
Absolutely,
and you should. Each doula will have her own set of skills and you
also want to make sure that the person you are choosing to help you
through labor is someone you feel comfortable with. This meeting
will be free of charge.
When
should I begin to look for a doula?
It is
best to start looking for a doula sometime in your second trimester,
or early in your third. A doula's schedule is often booked months in
advance, and to ensure that she is available when you go in to labor
you should look early. A doula is also a wonderful informational
reference if you are finding gaps in your primary care, and this
early contact can help you feel confident and supported long before
contractions begin!
However,
if you are late in your pregnancy, you can still try to find a doula
to support you. There are doulas who are on call for hospitals or
who work for themselves who often can show up to your labor at the
drop of a hat. Ask your midwife or doctor if you are already in
labor and want a doula to support you.
Are
there any reasons my doula would not be at my labor?
Once you
and your doula have decided to work together, she would only miss
your labor in cases of TRUE emergency or illness. Ask your doula if
she works with a back-up in case this happens.
My
husband will be at my labor, so why would we need a doula?
This is a
very common question with a rather complex answer. A doula is there
to support BOTH the laboring woman and her partner. A doula is not
there to replace or usurp the father's role in supporting his partner
through her labor. Many fathers have not been through a labor,
however, and do not know how they themselves will react to the
sights, sounds, smells and high emotions of labor. A labor can go
many directions, and last many hours. A doula is someone who can
enhance the father's role so that he is comfortable as well as the
mother. She can offer suggestions to help the father fit into his
role, and she can also allow the father time to eat, use the bathroom
and even sleep if he needs. A partner's role in labor is unique, and
the doula respects the relationship of the parents very much. After
all, no one knows the laboring mother as well as her partner!
What
kind of training do doulas have?
Doulas
are one of the world's oldest professions, and traditionally the role
of labor support was of the women relatives of the laboring woman.
Today, most doulas have completed some sort of formal training. Many
doulas are certified by an organization such as DONA (Doulas of North
America). Equally important training happens from experience, so
even doulas without certification or formal training can be wonderful
support for you during labor.
How
much does a doula cost? Are there any free doulas?
You can
expect to pay between $300-$1000, and most doulas work on a sliding
scale to find an amount that is both comfortable for your family's
pocketbook, and for the doula. Some doulas will offer their services
and support for free if your family is truly unable to pay. If you
are unable to pay, contact the Juneau Family Health and Birth
Center's Strength in Families Program by calling (907) 586-1203.
Do we
meet at all during my pregnancy?
Ideally,
a doula will get to know you and your birth partner(s) before labor
begins. One or two meetings is usual, and you should be able to call
and email your doula anytime.
What
qualities should I look for in a doula?
The
single most important thing a doula can offer you is comfort, so look
for someone you feel at ease with, and that you like to be around.
This relationship is one of mutual respect, so be sure you feel that
way if you are going to have her at this very important event in your
life.
What
kinds of births do doulas attend? Out of Hospital? In Hospital?
Cesarean?
Doulas
will accompany you in your labor wherever it takes you, wherever it
begins to wherever it ends. Doulas are nonjudgmental about your
chosen birth space, and are with you to support you in the decisions
you make in advance and during your labor and birth. This means a doula
will be with you at your home birth or in your hospital suite; at a
birth center or in the operating room! |